Anyone who listens to the show might be shocked to learn that I support Senator Chris Buttars legislation that would require students to have parental consent before joining clubs at high schools. The intent of the bill is to require parental consent before joining a “gay straight alliance” at a high school. Because all clubs must be treated equitably, all clubs will require the signature.
The move to restrict gay student support clubs in high schools resurfaced at the Legislature on Tuesday and passed its first committee hearing with Republicans in favor and Democrats opposed.
The controversial and complicated bill that affects all school clubs, curriculum-based or not, failed last year when House Republicans avoided the debate late in the session.
The legislation is the brainchild of Sen. Chris Buttars, R-West Jordan, who believes so-called gay-straight alliances are “conditioning” clubs aiming to recruit students to a gay lifestyle.
Confident he has the support of a majority of senators, Buttars asked Rep. Aaron Tilton, R-Springville, to start the bill in the House.
Tilton’s view differs from Buttars’. He says he isn’t trying to eliminate gay-straight alliances but he wants parents to be aware their children are members and have a chance to review any material presented to the club. Although he has never attended an alliance meeting, Tilton believes alliance members sometimes inappropriately discuss sexuality.
First, let me be clear, that my reasons for supporting this legislation are much different than Senator Buttars.
In a perfect world, all parents would responsibly teach their children about sex and the consequences of sexual activity before marriage. In a perfect world, teenagers wouldn’t engage in premarital sex and expose themselves to such tragedies as unplanned pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases.
But we don’t live in a perfect world, and because the ignorant and or irresponsible sexual behavior of teenagers would otherwise harm themselves, others and society in general, it is necessary to teach sex ed in the public schools. It’s an unfortunate necessity. It’s another example of policy and law being written to target the lowest common denominator of society while at the same time being universally applied to affect all of us.
The public schools are a terrible venue for the exploration and understanding of human sexuality. Sex is a serious matter that ultimately means different things to different people making an effective meaningful approach in public schools nearly impossible.
Parents have the right to teach their children about sex as they see fit. That could be in a scientific, social and/or religious context or all of the above. Parents also have the right to be aware of what is being taught to their children in the public schools. And when a parent objects to the material and ideas on sex presented by or made available by the public schools, the parent has the right to preclude their child from such exposure- even if the child disagrees with the parent.
Sex ed is different than a club exploring, defining and understanding human sexual activity and orientation. Sex ed is a preventative measure, while clubs based upon sexual orientation are exploratory. Exploring human sexuality is way beyond the scope of the role of public schools.
That being said, I don’t think these clubs are based upon actual sexual activity, orgies or “recruiting” people to become gay. Those arguments are silliness based in ignorance. The intention of the clubs is actually pretty good- to provide a safe place for teens struggling with their sexual identity and to promote understanding and tolerance of people with different sexual orientations. Some argue that some kids can’t tell their parents they think they might be gay, and that they need a safe place to go.
And as worthy as those intentions are, they do not trump the right of the parents to be the sole determinants of what their child is exposed to. When it comes to something as central to human identity as sexuality, a parent has an imperative right to know exactly what the public schools are making available to their kids.
It’s important to remember that this legislation does not ban gay clubs. Minors are still free to join the clubs and their existance is by no means under threat.












