I’m not big on government (surprise!), but I can admit that it has its place. To me, it’s a matter of the division of labor – I no more want to harvest all of my own food than I want to manage every aspect of, say, national defense. It seems like the standard opinion, however, is that the government is responsible for granting anyone and everyone (excluding illegal immigrants of course) the perfect happy life. People seem to think that if only there was enough governmental oversight, nobody would ever die or suffer injustice or, heaven forbid, make too much money.
I see the appeal – who wouldn’t wish for everyone to live a perfect life? – but there’s a very big problem with this way of thinking and it’s causing us to set up the causation of our own bleak future. I’m not referring to the unattainability of such a perfect dream; perfection is something to be strived for even if it cannot be truly achieved. I’m not referring to the futility of the expectation that we could somehow grant power only to those who would never abuse it; I’d only draw cries of “it could work if they were all Democrats/Republicans!”. No, I refer to a deeper conflict, one at the very core of the Mother Government way of thinking. I’m referring to the plain and simple truth that none of us would ever be able to agree on what the “perfect life” would be.
For some, it would mean never having to feel discomfort. For some, never having to experience prejudices. For others, it would mean that none of us would ever have to miss another Catholic mass – can I get an amen? All of them idealistic, all of them perfect in their own right, none of them perfect for everyone. So, I would ask the ideologues, which definition do we choose? On this long, hard road to forced perfection, which road map do we follow?
We all know the answer. Invariably, the ideologues reply “which definition do we use? Well… Mine.”
So the dilemma persists. Not that that in itself is bad – far from it. I believe it’s healthy to discuss the nature of the world and to compare notes on how we think it aught to be. Trouble is, you can go your whole life trying to convince people that you’re right and never come close to seeing a change in your world – and that’s totally depressing. Naturally it isn’t long before the ideologues stumble upon the answer: if we can’t get them to do it on their own, we’ll just have to make them do it. If they don’t want to believe in my church, we’ll just turn our tenets into law. If they don’t want to pay for all of us to have health care, we’ll bring the whole weight of the federal government down on them. If they don’t like our way of life, we’ll bomb their nation to cinders.
But these aren’t monsters we’re talking about – these are well-intentioned people, out to do right by the world. After all, it’s perfection we’re after, so how far is too far? Those poor deluded saps that don’t see the vision now will be thanking us when all is said and done; from their cell, their cage, their grave. All we need is enough control, at whatever the cost, and all will be right with the world.
That future is bleak. There’s no hope there, no change for the better, only conflict upon conflict upon conflict. But I’m not all sour grapes – I offer an alternative: what if we could create a place where people were safe to interact with each other as they chose, free to do as they pleased so long as they caused no definite harm to anyone else, and free from the danger that those ideologues who did not agree with them might someday leverage the power of law against them. There’s no sacrifice to be made – those who wanted to live a certain lifestyle could do it unimpeded. Those who wanted universal health care could band together and have it. Those who didn’t could be free to pay for themselves and, if they wanted, no one else. Those who preferred a certain cultural method could freely congregate and preach their message, but they could never assume authority over those of us who might disagree.
My point is, give up your need to force the people around you to live their lives how you want them to and just start being empathetic. Try to remember that, no matter how much they may disagree, other people are your equals and not your inferiors. If your perfection is really perfection, it’s worth convincing people to join you. If you can’t, no big deal.