This has been one of those weeks in talk radio.
One of those good weeks.
Whodathunk that at the end of this week, the biggest story in the “KVNUniverse” wouldn’t have something to do with the Primary Election on Tuesday.
Let me set the table for you.
On Tuesday, after our regular For the People show, we did the entertainment portion of the show from 6-6:30, and Paul Mero, president of the Sutherland Institute, remained in studio with myself, Jason and Jonathan.
Now, if you’ve listened to FTP Prime Time before, you know that what we generally do is read through entertainment news stories, and make comments on them, comments that are often sarcastic against the glimmering shine of Hollywood.
This particular Tuesday, there was news about the latest Miley Cyrus photo scandal from a Toronto concert. In this incident, the Reuters news agency posted a risque photo of Cyrus on its wire service, and the photo was linked to by celeb blogger Perez Hilton. Our discussion on Tuesday (which isn’t available online since I don’t podcast FTP Prime Time) ventured from a legal discussion about the posting of the photo (Reuters apparently consulted their attorneys and decided the photo would not pose a “child porn” issue if it were posted, as the intent wasn’t child pornography and the photo was taken at a concert in view of thousands.) As we were looking at the news story on Tuesday, I showed the photo in question to Paul Mero to get his reaction, and he said something along the lines of “That’s nothing worse than you’d see at halftime of sporting event,” referencing the dance troupes that often perform at halftimes. This led us into a discussion of teenage role models, and at one point, we received a phone call from someone identifying himself as Adam.
Adam told us that he had a sister who was a member of a local high school drill team, and because he felt either the costumes or the dances were inappropriate, he quit attending events to watch his sister dance.
That was that, we eventually moved on to other news.
On Wednesday, however, it turned out that we had lit the fire of controversy in Cache Valley, with comments that were made on Tuesday apparently offending several parents of drill team members in the valley. Myself and others at KVNU received phone calls and e-mails varying from demands of apologies to requests for a response from someone associated with drill teams. On Wednesday’s show, during the first part of the 4 p.m. hour, I brought up the issue briefly (you can listen to that here) and announced that on Thursday at 4:10, we’d hear from some parents and take calls on the issue.
We did that on Thursday, and ended up staying on the topic and taking calls non-stop for two hours. (Hear Hour 1 and Hour 2.)
I thought it was great radio. Whereas an early caller in the program told us that discussing the issue of whether drill teams (and other dance troupes) engage in inappropriate or suggestive dances and wear inappropriate clothing was not relevant and was something we shouldn’t be talking about on radio, the two full hours of calls we received indicated otherwise.
It is a very relevant discussion for us to have, and as the community listening post at KVNU, we have the perfect forum to have the conversation.
During the course of the evening we heard from a parent of a drill team member, a drill team coach, a current member of a drill team, a former member of a drill team who has a little sister involved in dance, a parent who wouldn’t want their child on a dance squad and several others. We received several different perspectives and it was fantastic. The discussion was great. Meanwhile, online in our chat room, the discussion remained vigorous and brought different points of view to the table.
So it surprised me to wake up Friday and find that not only were there still some people fuming about the issue, there are parents out for blood.
Friday’s ire apparently was focused on one comment that was made in our chat room from one of our listeners in response to a parent’s claims that the girls on drill team work long hours and work extremely hard. While I don’t have a transcript of the chat (perhaps the listeners who copied and pasted the transcript and are distributing it amongst their friends can provide me with one,) the comment was along the lines of “Prostitutes work hard too. And late nights.”
You can interpret the comment how you want, there are several ways it could be interpreted. That the comment was calling members of drill teams prostitutes, however, is an extreme stretch at best.
To me, that comment was simply a commentary that hard work and long hours does not excuse certain behaviors. To an individual who is concerned about the ever-more risque behavior seen amongst our youth and the desensitizing of our society to sexual exploitation, the comment is relevant. More so, however, it’s an opinion protected by the First Amendment.
I understand emotions are high in this issue. We’ve got what I think, by and large, are parents of drill team members who are emotionally, financially and physically invested in the endeavors of their children. It’s easy to get defensive, and it’s good that they’re standing up to defend the issue, because that’s what they’re supposed to do.
But the flip side of that reality is that there are people in our communities who believe that certain activities are pushing the boundaries of our community standards, and from time to time, we need to all pow wow and discuss our individual values and define what our community standards are, then, make sure we are abiding by them.
That’s what we did yesterday, at least in the form of two hours of radio time that can serve as the start of that discussion. Some have demanded that my colleagues and I apologize for what we’ve said, specifically, they say, for accusing local drill teams of dancing inappropriately.
To that, let me say, myself, Jonathan Choate, Jason Williams, Paul Mero and all of our callers Thursday, have said nothing of the such. No accusations have been levied at any of the Cache Valley drill team programs or any other local dance troupes. We recognize that these teams work extremely hard to have precision routines and over the years, the different squads have won numerous awards for their work. What we have said, however, is that the content of dances nationwide have changed over the years (yes, including here) and we must keep a prudent eye on not just what the children in our community are being involved with.
Because ultimately, at least with this drill team situation, what a drill team coach, a drill team member or a drill team parent thinks is appropriate is important, but of equal importance are the values and opinions of thousands who see these groups perform, from the father of the girl on the drill team to the mother of a member of the football team to the 15-year-old boy in the stands.
We must constantly monitor our community standards, because if we don’t, we let them slip.